Meet Me deck
A card at a time, people close by. Pass, like, super-match, or skip straight to a message. Rewind undoes the one you regret.
Trans dating that goes somewhere.
Built for trans people, not around them — trans women, trans men and non-binary members, plus the people who actually want to date them. Free to start, and nobody has to justify themselves to get a reply.
✦ Free account, no card · Quiet billing · Members are 18+ ✦
Real people. Watched rooms. Nobody wasting your evening.
Who’s here
Who actually has a profile here.
Plenty of sites in this category are really built for one group and put up with the rest. Everyone below is someone Transdatez was designed for, and you can tell from how much of the product actually applies to you.
- Trans womenComfortably the biggest group here. You get the whole product — gallery, guestbook, verification, ratings — rather than a filter checkbox on somebody else's dating app.
- Trans menFewer of you are here, and you deserve to know that before you sign up rather than after. The upside is a thinner field: profiles get noticed here that would disappear on a bigger platform.
- Non-binary membersGender is a text field, not a two-item dropdown. Write what is true, set the pronouns you use, and let the search filters do the sorting for you.
- Couples and groupsRun one profile between two people, state the arrangement in your Looking For tags so nobody guesses, and take anything involving a third person into a private chat group.
- Admirers and partnersCis members belong here — the site does not work without you. Ratings and the responsive badge are the mechanism that keeps the standard of behavior worth having.
Discovery & matching
Swiping is one way in. There are five.
Some people want a deck to flick through on the bus. Some want a search form with thirty fields. Both exist here, and the matching learns as much from what you pass on as from what you like.
Matching algorithm
Distance, interests, what you each want and how members rate you all feed in. Your deal-breakers count for as much as your preferences do.
Advanced search
Start with Verified, Online Now or Top Rated in a single tap, then keep narrowing — age, distance, appearance, lifestyle, background, intentions.
Discovery feed
What people near you are posting and reading. Slower than the deck, and far easier to open a conversation from, because there is something to respond to.
Matches hub
Likes received, likes sent, matches and super matches in one screen, rather than buried somewhere in a message list.
Notifications that mean something
Separated into likes, profile views, who just came online and account business, so interest is visible without hunting for it.
Your profile
More than a photo and a height.
Empty profiles get skipped, and most people know it while writing one anyway. There is room here to sound like a person — and if the blank box is the part you hate, answer a few questions and it writes a first draft.
Create a free profile- 60-second bio quizA handful of questions turns into a headline and a bio. Nothing publishes until you have read it, and every line stays yours to change.
- Looking For tagsRelationship, casual, friendship, online only. Pin it to the profile once and stop having the same clarifying exchange with every new match.
- Interests and backgroundTag what you actually spend time on. It changes who the algorithm shows you and who turns up in search holding a reason to message.
- Gallery and guestbookAs many photos as you want to put up, and a wall where people who have actually met or talked to you can vouch for it.
- Member ratingsEveryone carries a score the community gave them. Behave decently for a month and it argues your case before you type anything.
- Anti-ghosting badgeAnswer your messages and you earn it. Check for it on someone else’s profile before you spend an evening composing something.
Community
Somewhere to be besides your inbox.
Sub-communities organised by what people are into, where members put up meetups, photos, questions and the occasional argument. Contests hand out VIP time, and the Magazine runs articles, polls and safety pieces alongside.
Talking to people
Three ways to actually talk.
A public room, a group you control, or one person and you. Scam screening sits under all three whether you think about it or not.
Live chat groups
Public rooms with admins who are genuinely present. The guidelines get applied, not just posted.
Private chat groups
Up to fifty people, for organising a night out or just keeping a circle together. Nobody has to hand over a phone number to join.
Message protection
Almost every scam opens with a link or a request to move platforms. Incoming messages get checked for both. VIP members who find it fussy can turn it off.
How people behave here
The messages are why people leave.
Ask around and almost nobody quits a trans dating site over a missing feature. They quit over the inbox. Being handled as a category rather than a person wears thin inside a fortnight, and no search filter has ever fixed it.
So the conduct machinery here got the same attention as the matching machinery, and it actually gets used.
Create a free profile- Ratings travel with peopleThe score is attached to the account, not to one conversation. How somebody treated the last person is visible to the next one.
- A human reads the reportsIt is not a queue that quietly empties itself. Report or block from any profile or message thread, anonymously, in two taps.
- Rooms with someone watchingPublic chat has admins in it. The guidelines exist to be applied rather than to sit on a policy page.
- State it once and move onYour tags and interests carry your boundaries around for you, so they are not something you re-explain to every new match.
- Privacy is a switch, not a favourIncognito, blurred images and a neutral card descriptor are available to everybody, on the free tier, without asking.
Trust & safety
15×
the interaction, once a profile carries the verified badge
Nobody makes you verify. It still pays.
Photo or ID, whichever you prefer. You get the badge, the rooms closed to unverified accounts, and inclusion when somebody filters for real people. It is also the main reason catfishing does not get far here.
- Explicit images arrive blurred. Tap to reveal, set them to always show, or refuse them outright and never think about it again.
- Fake-account and scam detection runs continuously in the background, and reporting a profile takes two taps and never names you.
- Incognito takes you out of search results while leaving you reachable by friends and VIP members.
- Nobody sees your legal name or your email address, and the card descriptor says nothing about dating.
- Download everything you have given us, or delete the account for good, from settings, without a support ticket.
- Support runs twenty-four hours, on the phone, on live chat and by ticket.
Standards & support
The boring parts, done properly.
You will probably never need any of this. It is worth having on the one day you do.
- Running on a known platformBuilt on HubPeople, who work to industry Trust & Safety practice alongside the ODDA rather than inventing a standard of their own.
- Support that answersA phone line, live chat, a ticket system and a help centre behind them. Not a contact form that swallows the message.
- Five languagesEnglish, French, German, Portuguese and Spanish — through the whole product, not just the pages built to rank.
- The data stays yoursExport it, withdraw consent, or delete the account entirely, all from settings, at whatever hour you decide.
- Policies in the openTerms, Privacy, Consent, Cookies, Complaints & Content Removal, Modern Slavery and our Safety Standards & Child Protection policy are all published.
- Safety writing in the MagazinePractical pieces on first meetings, spotting a scam early, and keeping a date on terms you set.
Membership
Free is an account, not a trial.
Classic is not a countdown to a paywall. You can browse, match, post and read on it indefinitely. VIP exists for when the conversation is going well and the caps start to annoy you.
Classic
Free now and free later.
- Browse and swipe the Meet Me deck
- Match with people near you
- Post in Spaces and read the Magazine
- Verify your profile and earn the badge
- Messaging and matches are capped
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VIP
For when the caps start getting in the way.
- Unlimited messaging
- See everyone who liked you
- Advanced search filters and swipe rewind
- Exclusive chat rooms and group chat creation
- Boosted profile, priority comments and moderation
- 3 free Super Matches every week
Maximum reach
VIP Plus
VIP, but at the front of the queue.
- Everything included in VIP
- Priority placement for your messages and likes
- Extra boosted visibility across the site
- Top of the queue in the Meet Me deck
Boosts and Super Matches are sold separately too, on any tier. Live pricing appears on the plans screen before anything is charged.
Getting noticed
If you would rather not wait your turn.
Nothing here is required and the site works without any of it. It exists for the evenings when patience is not what you are feeling.
Boosts
An hour at the front of the local queue. Available on any tier, bought one at a time if that is all you want.
Super Matches
Arrive at the top of someone’s deck with the interest already stated. Sold in bundles; VIP comes with three a week.
Promote Me
Turn it on and the site starts putting you in front of nearby people whose tags overlap yours. Turn it off the moment it stops being useful.
How it works
Profile to conversation, in three moves.
1
Create your profile
Two minutes by hand, less if the bio quiz drafts it. Pick a display name; your legal one never appears anywhere.
2
Verify your photo
Skippable, but the numbers are hard to argue with: roughly fifteen times the interaction, plus the rooms and filters that need a badge.
3
Start talking
Work the deck, run a proper search, or just answer something in the feed. Whichever feels less like effort.
On the move
Opens anywhere. Installs nowhere.
The deck, the feed, chat, verification and the community Spaces all run in a browser tab. Nothing is withheld to push you into a download, though there is an app if a home-screen icon suits you better.
- Your number stays yoursGroup and private chat both live inside the site, so talking to someone never starts with handing over a contact detail.
- Five languages throughoutEnglish, French, German, Portuguese and Spanish, in the product itself rather than only on the pages built to be found.
- Add it to the home screenOne tap, no app store account, and nothing about dating showing up in a download history.
Before you join
Things worth asking first.
What does the free account actually include?
Browsing, the Meet Me deck, matching, verification and posting in Spaces — all of it, permanently. What Classic limits is how many messages and matches you get through in a day; VIP raises both. Nothing is charged unless you actively upgrade.
Is verification compulsory?
No, and plenty of members never do it. It is still the highest-return two minutes on the site: verified profiles see roughly fifteen times the interaction, and the badge is what gets you into the restricted rooms and past other people's filters.
Who can find me here?
Members, and only members. If you would rather not turn up in searches at all, Incognito removes you from them while leaving friends and VIP members able to reach you. Nothing is ever posted to your social accounts.
Can people send me explicit photos?
Not in a way you have to look at. Anything explicit is detected and blurred on arrival, and revealing it is your decision. Set it to refuse them completely and the question stops coming up.
What shows up on my bank statement?
A neutral descriptor that says nothing about dating or about this site. You see the exact wording on the payment screen before you confirm anything.
Can I join if I am not trans?
Yes — cis members who want to date trans people are a normal part of the site and it would not function without them. You set how you identify at sign-up and can change it whenever you like.
How do I leave?
Settings, whenever you want, no conversation with anybody required. Export your data first if you want a copy of it.
Guides
Read these before you start.
How this actually works, how to tell a decent site from a bad one, and how to avoid writing the same opening line as everyone else who messaged her today.
Someone near you is looking as well.
Two minutes gets you a profile and a look at who is around tonight.
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